FIRST YEAR AT UNITED STATES

Friends, exactly at this time before one year I landed in US. Its unable to believe that 1 year passed. But, yes someone has said: "TIME PASSES AWAY VERY FAST". Overall the experience was good.

Before writing I would like to Thank few people who came in my life in USA: Utsav Malankiya, Prerak Patel, Dhrumil Trivedi, Shradha ben, Azhar Rehmani, Harsh Lad, Dhwanit Saheria, Utsav Shah, Parth Patel, Vraj Modi, Rohan Amin, Hardik Pandya and Many more.

Definitely I'm missing my home country and its people, especially my family and friends. But I learnt lot of things and still learning, because LEARNING IS A NEVER ENDING PROCESS!

Firstly, I get into contact with Utsav Malankiya before coming here and was very supportive and answered my every questions. Because of him, I came and started living with him and Prerak. Then after some days new friends came to our house: Harsh, Dhwanit, Azhar and Vraj. We all had a classic time together and enjoyed very well.

But after some days, they found an apartment near on campus and then they all went. Then I, Prerak and Utsav were there. Harsh shifted to other state because of his transfer. Then after some months Utsav Malankiya also shited to on campus apartment.

But I'm heartily thankful to Prerak for supporting us in every point of life ranging from ride help to financial help. Also because of him I came in to contact with Yogi Divine Society (YDS). It was good for me, that I started becoming more HUMAN then I was ever before.

Also lot of things I've added to my Dictionary is Cooking, Adjusting yourself w.r.t. others, American Culture (some things) and many more. What I find is that, here life is busy and not as social as it was in my home country. But still I'm enjoying my life as I'm making it more fruitful and cheerful.

Still many more to come and more to learn in coming days!!

Thanks for reading. 

REAL STORY: IS THE BOSS RIGHT??

Friends, I would like to narrate you one real life story. In this story there are two main characters. They are President and the Sales Manager of a reputed company.

Now the sales manager does his best and sell his company's product. But unfortunately the President is not happy with his performance. Boss is not happy as he is unable to achieve his target of sales.

Now let's look at the real picture of this company. The sales manger though despite of his tons of effort, he is not able to sell some products in his region. What's the reason?? Any guesses?? Now the real reason:As the company's product was not able to deliver required output which was being delivered by competitor's product under same condition.

But as usual at the month end, the boss asks about the reason for not meeting the target. The manager tells that some products fails to deliver result. So the sales is lagging a bit behind the target. He also tells technical team is responsible for not giving the product which passes the customers test.

Look how the boss responds. You are the sales head of your region. So it's your sole responsibility to sell the product in your region. Though it's because of technical team you are not able to sell this product. You need to give attention and need to improve the product by taking help of technical team.

If sales Manager (S.M.) would focus on lab and technical team, when would he be selling his product? When would he visit the rest of the customers? Then what would be the role of technical manager?What would be the role of General Manager? What would be the role of President?

Moral: The company should choose the president appropriately. Because if he's not suitable for that post, he may destroy the bright future of company's employee and even the name of the company too!!

(Even my brother would not purchase product from me if that product is not running appropriately.)

Conclusion: Select the right company (For employees)

                     

                    Select appropriate Boss (For CEO's ) 

Thanks. Bye :)

LIFE OF A GIRL

You might be thinking that despite being a boy; how can I write about girl?? Why I have selected only girl? Yes of course there is a reason behind it and is that they're struggling more comparatively then boys.

Starting from the base, they are facing difficulties right from the word GO. Even in 21st Century many infants are killed purposely just because they are female.

Dowry is being demanded and given during marriage. Means are the families of girl having lower hand ? Is it logical to give money during marriage just because they are females? Not at all.

Once upon a time I was travelling in bus and was gazing through the window of that bus. It was hot summer night and people were travelling on road. At that my attention was drawn towards many girls and women because their face was covered with cloth even during the night. I wonder how they take breath? But probably they are doing so in order to hide their face from stalkers and eve teasers. Why don't some males look that female as their sister, mother or daughter? When they start looking them as their family member; things would change abruptly. Hope this day would be tomorrow!!

So girls are suffering almost at every stage of life compared to that of men. Even when they go for search of jobs, they need to be cautious. We all want to work in safe place. Don't you?? Then why not create a SAFE PLACE FOR WOMEN TOO??


Girls are insecure wherever they go in every phase of life. SELF-DEFENSE IS THE BEST DEFENSE. They must be strong mentally and physically to overcome all those odd activities. There are almost two gender on the earth. So shouldn't there be equality between them? Yes, it should be.

So, yes to #GenderEquality

IMPORTANCE OF IMPORTANT

Friends, Importance of Important means What are values of important things..

We must value the resources we have and utilize as much as possible. Every resources are like tree yielding fruits. We must use that resources in time otherwise it will get spoilt. Resources I'm talking about are Money, food, education, land, water, time, and other..

My point is if you are Billionaire then you must spend that money for good cause. If you are having 5 lacs extra then give to needy people. They will give you blessings and none of us are going to take money in heaven!!

Every person has 24 hours a day to do his activities. But some utilize it and other waste it. We must spend our time very cautiously because that time is not going to come again in our life.

Likewise we must not waste the food we are being provided. Because that food can fill the stomach of poor ones who are hungry from many days. If we're having extra food why not give to needy ones instead of throwing it in dustbin.

If we're having extra piece of land and we are not going to use it, why not allow needy to build house or use that land for earning their bread ? We must have helping nature. If we have something extra today give it to others. Who knows we may be need in Future? And that person can help us in our bad times.

So share something and get something!!

LIFE OF A SOLDIER

Friends, today I'm going to share with you life of soldier. It's not an autobiography. But it's a real incident which was narrated to me by a BSF (Border Security Force) soldier when we were both travelling in the same coach of the train. The following is the excerpts from the same:

     

He told me it's a very difficult job. But it's his service to Bharat Maa which persist him in continuing his work. He then elaborated that he needs to be at border for about 12 hours a day. Although it's difficult to do for 12 hours they also need to carry their rifle or machine gun which is very heavy along with their uniform. So it again makes it very difficult.

Keep all these hardship on other side. Let me tell you other things which will make them even more respectable. They are alone and separated by metres so they can't talk with their colleagues and friends as they may be very far from you. Also they need to keep watch in certain areas of border. So just scanning with above all difficulties; away from their home makes their service very assiduous.

No doubt they do their 12 hour service in two shifts separated by gap of hours, in which they need to take their Lunch/dinner and sleep also in that particular time. Also shift changes very frequently, so nothing may be fixed.

He also mentioned me one difficulty which they faces is that on the border wind blows with very high speed so again they need to wear special spectacles. They also even need to be awake because it's necessary. Of course when we be at one place for 6 hours continuously with no one surrounding us and doing the job of just watching in one particular area, we will feel sleepy. But they can't even wink because it may be the reason for infiltration.

Not only BSF but every soldier whether it's police, army or any other person they are doing very tough service for our safety, for our INDIA.



Last but not least,we must not forgot that some soldiers get martyred for the nation. It's a great sacrifice. After all, their family member have lost their loved ones. Thus we must respect every soldiers for what they are and for their service to mother INDIA.

THANK YOU SOLDIERS.   

Placement Scenario

Friends today’s topic is on Placement. We all are acquainted 

with this word. If not, then placement is the process through which students are placed in any company for doing job. If you have completed your bachelor’s then definitely you might have passed through this process. I had also passed through this phase. The following is the experience of mine.

There was one importance instance at which I had completed all the stages of the placement (Written Test-> Group Discussion->Interview). So I and my friend were awaiting results from the company which was seeking Mechanical Engineers. But I had horrible incident. After giving final Interview I waited for result for about 15 days. Then I contacted HR department of that company for getting the results of placement drive. Unfortunately that company was not replying. Suddenly one of my junior friend went for intern ship into the same company. So I contacted him to enquire about this issue. I was told by him they have recruited engineers from another college. No doubt they may recruit. In fact they had carried this recruitment drive in various colleges. But recruitment of all engineers from same college is little bit confusing. Do you think that they didn't find any single skilled eligible engineer from another college? Isn't it a big question? What made them to recruit number of employees from same college out of various colleges which they carried recruitment drive in it?? Did they receive any favor from that college? Till now it’s mystery for me.

I had also seen examples where companies come for placement drive in a college, conduct interviews after giving their presentation (Introducing their company) but then never give joining dates. So are they coming just for marketing their company product?? Or there is equation between HR department of college and company which is incomprehensible??

You all might have heard about this “To get job, you need recommender”. Means if you don’t have any relation in the company which you intend to go, there are less chances of your acceptance?? Does it mean that relation comes first than the eligibility? I don’t think so.

Some employees are also lured and cheated in the name of jobs and placements. This is the worst case which prevails in the market.

We all might have seen/heard that “x” student from “y” reputed institute got this much of package. Why is it so that less companies visit 3^rd tier colleges? Does it mean that their students are less competent than others? Well, absolutely no! I have seen bright students even from the less 

acknowledged colleges.So should they be kept alienated from such placement drives? Not at all!! I definitely think they will get lucrative offers in future if they persist in their set direction.

No doubt there are very few companies which indulge in the

above mentioned gimmicks. But it affects a lot of students. 

But I think every student will get the necessary platform 

either today or tomorrow to showcase their TALENT if they 

have so. Because WHERE THERE IS A WILL THERE IS A 

WAY. Good Luck!!    

RESERVATION V/S TALENT

Friends, many years back the question were raised by many citizens that whether reservations should be there or not?? But since last two months, there is a buzz regarding this topic. According to me reservation is for the upliftment of the citizens of any country, provided if there is any need. When reservation was added to our constitution, its main objective was to create UNITY among the citizens of India by bridging the gap between the people of different castes. We are living in a 21^st Century where we all have equal opportunities provided we must be capable enough.

 When we were in a school we used take pledge during the assembly prayer: “All Indians are my brother and Sister”. Now you tell me, Can we be brother or sister if we are divided based on caste?? Can we be siblings, if we are separated in colleges just because of the reservation even though we get the same marks in school?? How can a brother or sister would like to separate from each other, if they were in the same school when they were child??Are we still same child of our mother INDIA?? Indeed we are.

Yes financial assistance should be given to economically backward class, as we live in an era where money plays a major role. But talent is also the vital parameter in this cut throat competition. So should we compromise on talent?? Never!! Should we focus on upliftment of citizens based on their financial conditions?? Of course yes!!

I would like to narrate you one incident of my friend. He got the 2^nd rank in the class with 89% and of one of  our classmate secured 5^th rank with 79%. Now when we applied all together for a single branch in a single college; my friend didn’t get admissions into that college just because of the reason that he was from upper class and for this category cut off was 90%. Whereas other classmate who secured 5^th rank got into the same college in the same field as he was from lower caste and for which cut off was 78%. The same thing happens in recruitment of government/public sector. And after all jobs plays a key role in any country.

No doubt there are some friends of mine who have taken admission purely based on merit; despite they were from lower caste. And I know there are many such great people in this world.

Don’t you think current reservation is turning to be divisive rather than uniting??And when we are reserving any seat based on any factor other than talent or excellence, it’s invalid logically. So entry for any recruitment/ admission should be purely based on merit. And if this happens, then India would definitely be leading in many fields among the world. If you think, there is a need for EQUALITY; Raise your voice.